If You Answer Yes To Any Of These Questions, Your Relationship Can Be Saved:
1. QUESTION
Do you often feel hurt and/or angry by your partner’s actions? (You don’t feel heard and nothing changes.)
2. QUESTION
Do you keep thinking “If I do this or that, our relationship will improve,” but it doesn’t? (You may expending a lot of energy without knowing what is needed)
3. QUESTION
Do you fight about the same issues again and again with little or no resolution? (You think, why cant we resolve this?)
4. QUESTION
Does the word “divorce” often get thrown around during fights by you or your mate? (It may just be threat, but usually means that person feels hopeless.)
5. QUESTION
Do your fights often seem to be about ridiculous things? (Fights over nothing are signs of a power struggle.)
6. QUESTION
Do you edit your conversations with your partner, fearing you’ll be judged, criticized or not understood? (When you stop communicating honestly, there is no chance of fixing it.)
7. QUESTION
Do you feel like you’re living with a roommate, often spending time in separate areas of the house? (It’s often lonelier living with someone you’re not communicating with than it is living alone.)
8. QUESTION
Do you wish that your relationship had more fun and excitement, more passion, more emotional intimacy or more peacefulness? (If so, you’ve let your relationship stagnate.)
9. QUESTION
Do you often feel that neither you or your partner are getting your needs met?
10. QUESTION
Are you sometimes embarrassed by your own behavior when you are with your partner, and/or talk behind his or her back? (If you are, just think of what you are role modeling to your children )?
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